FUCK NO THAT’S NOT WRONG!!!
if a dude offers to buy you a drink, he’s not buying himself a pass into your pants. it might be a sign he’s interested in you, but accepting a drink NO WAY obligates you to sleep with/kiss/do anything with a dude. and your friends implying that you were leading him on~ by doing so shows some pretty shitty judgment on your friends’ parts.
ACCEPT ALL THE DRINKS YOU WANT AND SHUT THAT SHIT DOWN BABE.
and if the guy then tries to force any type of contact you don’t approve of just because you accepted the drink - you shove that bitch away and make it very clear what your boundaries are.
OK SO I bought a book for my classes next semester that has this painting of this woman on the front, it’s a book about the pre-raphaelites, and I have been STARING at this woman for like a full week wondering where the fuck did I know that FACE FROM IT LOOKS SO FAMILIAR and then and THEN IT HIT ME